The Mighty Tongue

Tongue can be used to shape one's life, build up others and to destroy some people . God gives us the grace to use tongues to express our thoughts and desires, and we are expected to use words wisely and thoughtfully. Words have power and can bring blessing or curse. Tongue is recognised as a powerful force for either good or evil. Our tongues should be used to proclaim God's kingdom, encourage and bless others. Proverbs 15:4 - A wholesome tongue is a tree of life but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit. The followings are discussed: Use Word properly; Avoid Destructive Word, and Choose life giving Words.

Use Word Properly: We must use words properly as they can have negative and lasting effects on lives of people (Proverbs 18:21; 20:25). Words have power and can bring great benefits if they are used wisely. We should be mindful that what we say has consequences. What we say can make a way to success and can also set a trap for us and others. Those who gossip often talk carelessly and become trapped. Christians must not make promises they can not keep. Promises that are not kept are a trap.

We should have considered our resources and amount we can afford to give out before promising others. At times we can pledge more than we are able and give sacrificially. Such giving can be based on trusting God to bless us more than our expectations. We can challenge God and vow to honour Him with our substance when our prayer is answered. We shouldn't withhold the giving when such need is met no matter the amount vowed. Likewise we should not vow to give out of pity or compassion if we know we cannot keep our words. Empty promises can complicate issues and make life difficult for people.

As we don't know what the future holds we should consider matters of other time or day with some restraints (Proverbs 27:1-2; 5,21). Life is uncertain and the future is unknown therefore we should look to God to guide and help us do the correct thing. We just have to pray and hope for the best from God (James 4:13-17). It is not good enough for someone to boast of his achievements and praise himself. He should leave that for someone else to find out and assess. If the achievement is worth commendation others should value it and appreciate our contributions.

Avoid Destructive Words: Do not choose words that can stir confusion and lead to trouble. Loose lips bring trouble therefore Christians must avoid words and actions that cause trouble and erode reputation. It is bad to meddle in a matter in which you are concerned. Gossip can be appealing, but it hurts the feelings and causes great harm (Proverbs : 26:17-23). It can spark aggressive reaction and result in broken relationships.

We must not be fooled by charming words, nor should we fool others. Such flattering words mask all manners of malice and deceit (Proverbs 26: 24-28). Words of deception will definitely strain relationship and cause deep wounds and hatred. Malice is unacceptable to God and leads to eternal consequences.

Choose Life-Giving Words: Tongue should be trained and the mouth cautioned to say positive thing to one's life and the lives of others. There should be a difference between utterances of the righteous and the wicked. The righteous must be quick to hear and slow to respond to angry words. They must respond with understanding heart and not repay evil with evil.

In contrast to negative influence of the word of the foolish, our words should promote goodness and exhibit God-given wisdom (Proverbs 15:1-2, 4,7,23 &28). Our words shouldn't hurt soul, rather they should encourage, comfort, guide and direct others rightly.

When people live by the word of God and make use of godly wisdom they will find it easier to say positive words. We should say words that can minister to fellow believers and draw unbelievers to Christ. As Christians we must live out our faith in Christ and ensure our lifestyle matches our words. Foolish words should not proceed from our mouths (Proverbs 16:23-24). Lesson texts: Proverbs 15:1-2,4,7,23,28; 16:23-24; 18:21; 20:25; 26:17-26, 28: 27:1-2,5,21.